Lala Kent opened up about her tumultuous co-parenting relationship with ex-fiancé Randall Emmett during an interview at BravoCon 2025, describing it as a ‘nightmare’ and revealing that she has grown ‘numb’ to the constant challenges. The ‘Vanderpump Rules’ alum shared these insights with Page Six’s ‘Virtual Reali-Tea’ hosts, highlighting the ongoing difficulties nearly four years after their separation, even after finalizing a custody agreement earlier in the year.
She elaborated that co-parenting their four-year-old daughter Ocean is perpetually stressful, with Kent stating, ‘It’s always a nightmare.’ To manage their interactions, they use a dedicated communication app and engage in parallel parenting, a method where each parent handles responsibilities independently. Kent confessed that while there are occasional good moments, they pass quickly, and she doesn’t dwell on them, leading to her emotional detachment from the situation.
The roots of their strife trace back to 2021, when Page Six exclusively reported that Kent ended her engagement with Emmett after he allegedly cheated on her in Nashville. They had welcomed Ocean just months prior, and the breakup ignited a fierce custody battle that dragged on for over three years, characterized by Kent as ‘chaotic’ and emotionally draining.
In 2023, the conflict intensified when Emmett faced allegations of being involved in an FBI investigation for suspected child exploitation and pedophilia. Although the FBI neither confirmed nor denied the investigation, and Emmett denied any wrongdoing without facing charges, the scandal fueled Kent’s determination to secure full custody, adding legal complexity and public scrutiny to their private struggles.
The custody dispute reached a resolution in March 2025, when Kent announced during an Amazon Live stream that they had signed an agreement she believes is best for Ocean. She expressed immense relief, noting that the lengthy process had deeply affected her and likely Emmett as well, and she is grateful to have reached a settlement that prioritizes their daughter’s welfare.
Amid these challenges, Kent has built a positive aspect of her life with the birth of her second child, Sosa, via sperm donor last year. She often reflects on this decision as a highlight, saying, ‘Every time I look at Sosa I’m like, ‘Best decision I ever made, girl,” which provides a counterbalance to the difficulties with Emmett.
Moving forward, Kent hopes the custody agreement will lead to a more stable co-parenting dynamic for Ocean’s sake, though she remains realistic about the ongoing strains. She emphasized her focus on her children’s happiness and is committed to navigating the future with resilience, despite the emotional weight of the past years.
