Country music star Dierks Bentley recently disclosed that he and his wife Cassidy Black have been sleeping in separate beds and occasionally separate rooms for years, a decision driven by his challenging sleep habits. During a September 2 episode of the “BobbyCast” podcast, Bentley explained that this arrangement helps them both get better rest, but they plan to reunite in the same bedroom by year’s end.
Bentley, 49, described himself as “the world’s most horrible sleeper,” requiring precise conditions to fall asleep, including the exact positioning of three pillows. He contrasted this with Cassidy’s ability to doze off almost instantly, which often jolted him awake. This disparity prompted him to make a change years ago by eliminating their shared bed.
“I decided to separate church and state,” Bentley said, recounting how he installed two separate platform beds with individual mattresses and duvets, creating a visible gap between them. This setup, which he likened to “independent suspension,” allows Cassidy to move freely without disturbing him, and even permits pushing the beds apart for extra space.
However, Bentley’s sleep issues have intensified recently, leading Cassidy to sleep on the couch or in an extra room to avoid disruptions. In the podcast, he shared that just the night before, they discussed the need to “get this back on track” and aim to share the same room again, especially after his touring schedule winds down.
The couple, married since December 2005 after meeting in middle school, share three children: Evalyn, Jordan, and Knox. Bentley has often spoken about the importance of family, noting that their kids are the “greatest character builders” in their marriage.
To make the bedroom more conducive for both, Bentley has introduced a TV and his father’s old recliner, items not previously part of their sleep environment. He humorously referred to it as a “health and wellness setup” and expressed optimism about their plan to reconcile their sleeping arrangements.
This openness about a personal struggle resonates with many couples who face similar issues, highlighting the universal challenge of sleep compatibility. Bentley’s candid and humorous approach endears him to fans, showcasing his relatable side beyond the stage.
As they work towards this goal, it underscores the value of adaptability and communication in sustaining a long-term relationship, even in the face of mundane yet impactful daily habits.